After Dr. Gary Salyer’s first divorce, he vowed that his next marriage would be different. So when his second marriage crumbled almost a decade later for nearly the same reasons he was devastated. He felt like an utter, complete failure. But rather than give in, he was determined to find another way. He dedicated himself to doing the deep research about all things love. He read, researched, furthered his education in the field, talked to experts and to people he loved. Most of all he did the deep transformation work that unlocked his heart and released his soul to love as he had always imagined. Love — and how to make it lasting – became his life’s highest calling—not just for himself, but others. In so doing, he has developed a powerful and effective methodology to make it “Safe to Love Again” for those who may have even given up hope. Based on a field of study called Attachment Theory, the science of intimate relationships, Dr. Sayler’s insights have a profound and often times immediate impact. As a transformational relationship mentor, he helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. He empowers singles to reclaim their rights for a full soulmate relationship. With couples, he helps resolve their conflicts and differences so they can have the love they dream about.
Entrepreneurial Role Models:
When business started difficulties overcame:
“I had been a former graduate Professor so the jump from academia to entrepreneur well that was a little tougher than I thought… And then of course I had taken some business training and I got all under my head and I did this offer that fell so flat, I think I made $47 of that event, and all the months it took to do it. But I stayed with it. I said okay that’s learning curve. The entrepreneurial way is really about showing up with inspiration and information”…[Listen for More]
Favourite Books:
- Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business Book by Gino Wickman
- Fascinate: Your 7 Triggers to Persuasion and Captivation Book by Sally Hogshead
- Tribes: We need you to lead us Book by Seth Godin
Favourite Quote:
“There is no such thing as unresourceful people there is only unresourceful states”
Recommended Online Resources:
- Google is an American multinational technology company that specializes in Internet-related services and products, which include online advertising technologies, search engine, cloud computing, software, and hardware.
- Amazon is an American multinational technology company based in Seattle, Washington that focuses in e-commerce, cloud computing, and artificial intelligence. Amazon is the largest e-commerce marketplace and cloud computing platform in the world as measured by revenue and market capitalization.
- Facebook Live – Live Video Streaming. Live video streaming is a fun, engaging way to connect with your followers and grow your audience Start live streaming today with Facebook Live
Best Advice to Other Entrepreneurs:
“my best advice is believe in yourself and to know that it is okay to reach out… Reach out for your stars and notice the stars reach back”…[Listen for More]
More About Gary Salyer:
Neil’s Quote at the Beginning:
“What we do in life echoes in eternity.” Maximus, from Gladiator
Other Quotes From the Chat with Gary Salyer:
- “human beings are our greatest resource, that’s why they call it human resources. And we need to have businesses and business practices that create a culture where the human spirit can thrive… I don’t see where we can afford not to have a culture of appreciation… We can appreciate things people will be more motivated… They work better with bosses who treat them well”
- “trust the process, get out and fail some”
- “my mantra is I fail to win”
- “There is more learning being on the floor five minutes then sitting on the bench the entire time. Get out and do it”
- “what is marketing but creating a good experience in your client. If you can’t create the experience”
- “a lot of business is the first getting started that’s the hardest thing and a lot of people quit”
- “when you start a business don’t judge it by the first year… Find ways of getting traction”
- “if someone says ‘I am a failure,’ no that’s a state it’s not who we are. If we can realise it’s a state and not who we are then we can change it… The moment you take estate and make it into an identity level assertion you are screwed, you can never change the state because we defend who we are jealously. It’s who we are… I think it’s allowing ourselves to have the freedom to say I am bigger than any state out there including those that are within me”
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